If you could not fail

You've no doubt heard the cliche question that goes like this: "If you knew the date certain of your death, how would it change the way you live your life?“ While that question generates the desired "change now" responses, it's conjures a rather fatalistic view of getting the important things in before you die ... because it could happen tomorrow.

While I don't like the question, the intent there is good. Here is a question that gets to the issue: "What great thing would you attempt if you knew you could not fail?” No, this is not a Miss Universe Pageant question. I’m putting this question to you. Take a moment to catalog your first thoughts. Were your thoughts positive or negative? Were they anticipating or regretful? This question, by Robert Schuller, famous minister and author, speaks to the very heart what we expect from ourselves.

The key word is expect. Our expectations of ourselves rule our actions. It's the thermostat in our lives. We rise or fall back to that level that we set. What have you not attempted for fear of failing? Do you expect great things of yourself? ... and if not, why not?

Stirring the Pot ... a distraction

With the advent of the 24 hour news cycle, everything is news! The supermarket tabloid "news" can now be found in mainstream media on websites and cable channels. This snooping and barrage of half truths has taken water cooler talk to a new level. It's even evident in the "reality" shows that have grown to be standard fare over the past decade. It's all about drama, stirring the pot.

This drama takes us away from what's really important. If we are focused on everything outside of us, we have no time to focus on us. We have no time to look within. When was that last time you took a few moments to take a look at yourself? When was that last time you slowed down to take stock of all your activities and behaviors. Are you on track? Do you even have a track?

Right now you have time to do this! Don't listen to that inner voice that says "do it later". That voice does not have your best interest at heart. Do it right now. Take five minutes to self assess. Think of all that you do and all that you can do. Think of yourself, relationships and family. Stir your own pot!