Ownership is hard. It's hard because it requires the you take some measure of responsibility. Make an acknowledgment that it was in someway your fault. Yes, you faltered and rumor has it that you may not even be perfect. If you've watched the downfall of the most recent celebrity du jour, they've likely given their "mea culpa" speech where they shouldered the blame. It would be great if it wasn't done on the advice of their publicist, but at least it was done. While we'll rarely know someone's intent, all we can do is take them at their word and then see if they back it up with actions.
The same holds true for you. While your words important your actions take it to the next level. If you need advice on your next mistake, and there will one, I'll be your publicist with this free advice. Fall on your sword. A mentor once told me that if you can find 10% that's your fault, keep looking because there is probably more. People distrust folks with all the answers and seldom take the blame. It's possible to take the blame and keep your power, in fact, you could even gain credibility and respect. The key is that you have be sincere. We can all spot a fake, and if you are spotted you could lose credibility.
Remember, before you blame, point the finger at yourself first.
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